Tuesday, August 14, 2007
the story of the ex-es. or the ex boyfriends/girlfriends as everyone knows it.
we must have gotten one of those hard-to-forget-ex, cant-get-rid-ex, come-back-to-me-ex, bastard-ex, cheater-ex or smth. whether its his/her fault or yours, there is bound to be some sorta feelings attached to this particular person. some cant bear to face their ex-es again. some become best friends w their ex-es. (i swear to god this is damn rare.) some continue dating others, with the hope that one day his/her ex will return. haha. its like im ripping my blog entry off all the stories i've heard arnd me.
honestly, who has problems with his/her partner's ex-es? always read those aunt agony stories of those who hate it when their bfs keep their ex-gfs pictures. well, keeping pictures doesnt equate to him/her missing the person. sometimes nothing replaces those memories, and the pictures are the only tangible things (other than presents and whats-not) that one can keep. i have no qualms with my bf keeping such things. its HIS stuffs man. i dun mind checking it out even. at first it was queasy seeing ur own bf in the picture with some other girl, but hey, just tell yourself that was in the past man. just look at how childish he looked, how lousy he dressed, his ah beng hair. omg, if i knew him then, i wouldnt even pose for a picture with him la. but then again, i admit blowing up due to one of those ex-es picture once. that was cos it was a neoprint of him and his ex when we were alr dating. was i being oversensitive or jealous? i still dont think so. fine, i like to justify my actions. but my point is, ex-es remain as ex-es as long as they dont interfere in your current r/s.
some ex-es can be forgiven. when u're sure they have changed for the better. now u say, how would u know? well, i dunno. haha. its a stupid idea isnt it? for me, i believe that if there was a reason to break up, there shdnt be a reason to get back tgt. let's just say, Asses with a capital A, Bastards with a capital B, Cheats with a capital C, Drunkards with a capital D, Egoistics with a capital E, Fuckers with a capital F, Gluttons with a capital G, Hairyasses with a capital H, Idiots with a capital I, Jerks with a capital J, Kukus with a capital K, Looooosers with a capital L, Mongrels with a capital M, Nutcases with a capital N, 'Orgasm-too-early'-s with a capital O, Pissfaces with a capital P, Queers with a capital Q, Rag-and-bones with a capital R, Shitholes with a capital S, Tonguetwisted-s with a capital T, Uberdubersmellies with a capital U, Vainpots with a capital V, Wickedhearted with a capital W, Xena-boobie-fazed with a capital X, Yuppies with a capital Y, Zoo-smelling-armpits with a capital Z should be dumped.
i dun hate all my bf's ex-es. haha. in fact i dont hate any of them cos i dont know them. i hate those that took my bfs away though. owell, the guy's not worth it. "leave some dignity for yourself, lady."
"i'd rather have bad times with you, than good times with someone else..."
does every guy/girl say that on the verge of a breakup?
now the song sounds so meaningless
the feeling of 'love' consists of seratonin. so its right to say that one falls 'madly in love'. its not just a metaphor, its REAL.
a very random entry at a very random time.